Public Humiliation By Venmo

Venmo is a great, easy-to-use, and cost-free person-to-person money transfer app.  But in my "vanilla" life I've never much understood the "social media" aspect of the app.  However, under Mistress Alice's tutelage, I have come to savor the possibilities for public humiliation and public exposure of my financial submission that it allows.

By way of background for those who may not be familiar with the app (it is currently available only for use in the U.S.), a Venmo user connects his or her bank account to the app and then can make cost-free transfers of cash to other users.  The main use that Venmo's marketing seems aimed at is small person-to-person cash transfers, such as reimbursing a friend for a shared meal or taxi ride, or splitting utility or rent costs with a roommate.  Each transaction includes a description of the reason for the payment in text or emoji (such as a taxi, Chinese takeout container, etc.) and can be set to be visible to the "public," to only your "friends" on the app, or "private" (just visible to participants in the transaction).  Only the description of the transaction but not the amount of the transfer is made visible to non-participants.  Other users can then "like" the transaction as in Instagram.

As mentioned above, I never saw the desirability of publicly blogging one's mundane cash transfers in vanilla life.  But egged on by Mistress Alice (and encouraged by the fact that I don't use Venmo with my family or co-workers, only with younger NYC friends), I have started using "public" Venmo transactions as a form of self-humiliation and to reveal to some degree my financial submissive tendencies.

While I have continued to keep my weekly tribute payments to Mistress Alice "private," I have made a number of publicly visible transfers to Mistress Alice by Venmo over the last few months.  A sampling includes the transaction shown at the top and the following:

At Mistress Alice's command, going forward, I will be required to pay $40 for every orgasm I have and the payments must be made by public Venmo payment so that all her friends can read and enjoy them.

Making Mistress Alice the Beneficiary of my 401(k) Retirement Account

On Friday night Mistress Alice sent me an email telling me that she had updated my lists of rules and required tasks and assignments.  I learned that she had selected one of my favorites -- the requirement that I make her the beneficiary of my 401(k) retirement account.  I was so excited, I started masturbating at the idea under the blanket of my bed even though I was sharing a bedroom in a vacation rental house with my mother.

Now, two days later, I have officially made the change, making Mistress Alice the sole beneficiary of my retirement account (removing my brother who had previously been the beneficiary).  There is currently $92,500 in the account and I contribute 6% of my salary to it, so I hope it will grow amply over the years for Mistress Alice.

This kind of real-word, real-consequences financial submission is one of my favorite "fetish" activities and I hope this is just the first of several major steps in my complete financial submission to Mistress Alice.  As further steps, I envision:  (1) making her the sole beneficiary of my will; (2) making her the joint beneficiary or joint owner on all my bank accounts and investment accounts; and (3) legally transferring ownership of my Brooklyn apartment and all other assets to her.   The end game is that I own nothing, Mistress Alice receives all of my salary through direct deposit, and I live on whatever allowance she decides to permit.